We all have the same basic need to act like we’re living in a world where we’re not.
For the most part, we all act like we want to act like we want to act. It is, however, true that there is a lot that we don’t want to do. Some of our basic instincts are really bad. This is especially true when it comes to sex. Many women (and men) are simply terrified of the thought of not being able to get it on. Some of us are simply terrified of the thought of not doing it.
That’s probably why we are so quick to condemn others for not being as sexually adventurous as we are. If someone says, “I’m not having sex tonight,” we think nothing of it. Our instinctive responses are to either say, “You’re a stupid, pathetic, pathetic loser,” or “You’re just using sex as a consolation prize.” The problem is that it’s all wrong. We should treat sex as a reward, not a punishment.
I think this is especially true in a world of social media where the way we communicate has changed so much. We don’t have to wait to be invited to a party to get more information on it. In fact, we have to wait for information on it. We don’t have to check the news only when it’s about to happen.
This is a problem in itself. We werent just talking about sex when we started this, we were talking about how there is a lot of social media out there that tells us about sex at certain times. There are so many videos and blogs out there that say “This is when you should go.” We should be able to go to any party we want knowing that we wont be getting any sex at any time.
The idea that we can’t go to parties because there’s no sex is a bit silly. This is not some “no sex allowed” kind of thing. It is, instead, a way to have sex without spending too big a chunk of your life in a relationship. The ‘no sex’ part may be a bit more complicated than that, but it is not impossible.
No sex is not impossible. No sex is not going to be a boring, mundane experience. There are a lot of ways to have sex without getting fucked up.
This is by no means “all”, but there are some things that no sex can be. No sex can be a quick and mindless activity with a lot of foreplay. No sex can be a dull, boring sex-crazed routine. No sex can be just a bunch of guys and girls doing their thing. No sex can be sex with lots of foreplay and no sex can be sex with no foreplay. The list goes on and on.
No sex can be boring. If sex is boring, then you can expect sex to be boring, too. But that’s not the case with some of our favorite forms of sex. For example, it’s fun to perform oral sex, but it can definitely be boring and just a bunch of guys and girls doing their thing.
Oral sex can be an exciting sex-crazed routine. But don’t expect to have a boring, sex-crazed routine. Sure, there are plenty of anal sex movies that don’t involve lots of foreplay or foreplay with lots of sex, but we’re talking about movies that include lots of foreplay, not just oral sex.